soc: Rename wb_dram_ctrl to wb_ext_io and rework decoding

soc: Rename wb_dram_ctrl to wb_ext_io and rework decoding

This makes the control bus currently going out of "soc" towards
litedram more generic for external IO devices added by the
top-level rather than inside the SoC proper.

This is mostly renaming of signals and a small change on how the
address decoder operates, using a separate "cascaded" decode for
the external IOs.

We make the region 0xc8nn_nnnn be the "external IO" region for
now.

This will make it easier / cleaner to add more external devices.

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Herrenschmidt <benh@kernel.crashing.org>