Connect the shared solver to theory engine (#5103)

Connect the shared solver to theory engine (#5103)

This makes SharedSolver the main communication point for TheoryEngine during solving for combination-related solving tasks. This class is a generalization of SharedTermsDatabase, and in the distributed architecture is a wrapper around shared terms database.

It has 5 callbacks in theory engine: for preregistration, preNotifyFact (which calls addSharedTerms on theories), assertSharedEquality, explain, getEqualityStatus.

This PR has no intended behavior changes.

FYI @barrettcw