st/dri: decrease input lag by syncing sooner in SwapBuffers

st/dri: decrease input lag by syncing sooner in SwapBuffers

It's done by:
- decrease the number of frames in flight by 1
- flush before throttling in SwapBuffers
  (instead of wait-then-flush, do flush-then-wait)

The improvement is apparent with Unigine Heaven.

Previously:
    draw frame 2
    wait frame 0
    flush frame 2
    present frame 2

    The input lag is 2 frames.

Now:
    draw frame 2
    flush frame 2
    wait frame 1
    present frame 2

    The input lag is 1 frame. Flushing is done before waiting, because
    otherwise the device would be idle after waiting.

Nine is affected because it also uses the pipe cap.