vc4: Make sure we allocate idle BOs from the cache.
We were returning the most recently freed BO, without checking if it
was idle yet. This meant that we generally stalled immediately on the
previous frame when generating a new one. Instead, allocate new BOs
when the *oldest* BO is still busy, so that the cache scales with how
much is needed to keep some frames outstanding, as originally
intended.
Note that if you don't have some throttling happening, this means that
you can accidentally run the system out of memory. The kernel is now
applying some throttling on all execs, to hopefully avoid this.