Fix build of core_dram_tb and dram_tb and fix tracing

Fix build of core_dram_tb and dram_tb and fix tracing

We disabled --trace by default, so we need to stop linking verilated_vcd_c.o
as it doesn't exist in that case.

While at it, make a Makefile variable to enable/disable verilator tracing
and add a couple of generics to those test benches to control tracing
in the L2 and in litedram.

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Herrenschmidt <benh@kernel.crashing.org>