soc_reset: Use counters, add synchronizers

soc_reset: Use counters, add synchronizers

In some cases we need to keep the reset held for much longer,
so use counters rather than shift registers.

Additionally, some signals such as ext_rst and pll_locked
or signals going from the ext_clk domain to the pll_clk
domain need to be treated as async, and testing them without
synchronizers is asking for trouble.

Finally, make the external reset also reset the PLL.

Signed-off-by: Benjamin Herrenschmidt <benh@kernel.crashing.org>