obsd-nat: Various fixes to obsd_nat_target::wait.

obsd-nat: Various fixes to obsd_nat_target::wait.

- Call inf_ptrace_target::wait instead of duplicating the code.
  Replace a check for WIFSTOPPED on the returned status from waitpid
  by checking for TARGET_WAITKIND_STOPPED in the parsed status as is
  done in fbsd_nat_target::wait.

- Don't use inferior_ptid when deciding if a new process is a child vs
  parent of the fork.  Instead, use find_inferior_pid and assume that
  if an inferior already exists, the pid in question is the parent;
  otherwise, the pid is the child.

- Don't use inferior_ptid when deciding if the ptid of the process
  needs to be updated with an LWP ID, or if this is a new thread.
  Instead, use the approach from fbsd-nat which is to check if a ptid
  without an LWP exists and if so update the ptid of that thread
  instead of adding a new thread.