zink: rework query handling

zink: rework query handling

this hooks up query objects to the batches that they're actively running on
(and the related fence) in order to manage the lifetimes of queries more
efficiently by calling vkCmdResetQueryPool only on init and when the query
pool has been completely used up. additionally, this resolves some vk spec
issues related to destroying pools with active queries

note that any time a query pool is completely used up, results are lost,
which is a very slight improvement on the previous abort() that was triggered
in that scenario

ref mesa/mesa#3000

Reviewed-by: Erik Faye-Lund <erik.faye-lund@collabora.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/5533>