mem: Enforce insertion order on the cache response path

mem: Enforce insertion order on the cache response path

This patch enforces insertion order transmission of packets on the
response path in the cache. Note that the logic to enforce order is
already present in the packet queue, this patch simply turns it on for
queues in the response path.

Without this patch, there are corner cases where a request-response is
faster than a response-response forwarded through the cache. This
violation of queuing order causes problems in the snoop filter leaving
it with inaccurate information. This causes assert failures in the
snoop filter later on.

A follow on patch relaxes the order enforcement in the packet queue to
limit the performance impact.