mem: Add bytes per activate DRAM controller stat

mem: Add bytes per activate DRAM controller stat

This patch adds a histogram to track how many bytes are accessed in an
open row before it is closed. This metric is useful in characterising
a workload and the efficiency of the DRAM scheduler. For example, a
DDR3-1600 device requires 44 cycles (tRC) before it can activate
another row in the same bank. For a x32 interface (8 bytes per cycle)
that means 8 x 44 = 352 bytes must be transferred to hide the
preparation time.