Use side effect utility for non-linear lemmas (#3780)

Use side effect utility for non-linear lemmas (#3780)

Fixes #3647.

Previously, when doing incremental linearization for transcedental functions, we would add points to the list of secant points at the time when linearization lemmas were generated. However, our strategy has been updated such that lemmas may be abandoned (say in the case that a higher priority lemma is found). Thus, our list of secant points had spurious points corresponding to lemmas that weren't sent. This led to assertion failures, and likely led to gaps in our linearization, hindering our ability to say sat/unsat.

This PR introduces a "lemma side effect" class to ensure that modifications to the state of the nonlinear solver are in sync with the lemmas we send out.