meson: fix vdpau target linkage

meson: fix vdpau target linkage

The VDPAU state tracker needs to be linked with whole-archive (autotools
does this). Because we are linking the whole archive we alos need to
link with libswdri and libswkmsdri if those have been enabled.

v4: - Always add libswdri and libswkmsdri to link_with list

Fixes: 68076b87474e7959 ("meson: build gallium vdpau state tracker")
Signed-off-by: Dylan Baker <dylan.c.baker@intel.com>
Acked-by: Eric Engestrom <eric.engestrom@imgtec.com>
Reviewed-by: Emil Velikov <emil.velikov@collabora.com>