ruby: fix message buffer init order

ruby: fix message buffer init order

The recent changes to make MessageBuffers SimObjects required them to be
initialized in a particular order, which could break some protocols. Fix this
by calling initNetQueues on the external nodes of each external link in the
constructor of Network.

This patch also refactors the duplicated code for checking network allocation
and setting net queues (which are called by initNetQueues) from the simple and
garnet networks to be in Network.