mem: Add const getters for write packet data

mem: Add const getters for write packet data

This patch takes a first step in tightening up how we use the data
pointer in write packets. A const getter is added for the pointer
itself (getConstPtr), and a number of member functions are also made
const accordingly. In a range of places throughout the memory system
the new member is used.

The patch also removes the unused isReadWrite function.