configure: check once for DRI3 dependencies

configure: check once for DRI3 dependencies

Currently we are having the XCB_DRI3 dependencies duplicated,
partially.

Just do a once-off check and add all of the respective CFLAGS/LIBS
where needed.

As a nice side effect this helps us solve a couple of FIXMEs.

DRI3 is not a thing w/o X11 so disable it in such cases.

Cc: mesa-stable@lists.freedesktop.org
Signed-off-by: Emil Velikov <emil.velikov@collabora.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Engestrom <eric@engestrom.ch>