i965/miptree: Add an aux_disabled parameter to render_aux_usage

i965/miptree: Add an aux_disabled parameter to render_aux_usage

Only one of the callers of intel_miptree_render_aux_usage actually took
brw->draw_aux_buffer_disabled into account.  This was causing us to
ignore draw_aux_buffer_disabled for the intel_miptree_prepare_render.
This isn't a problem because the draw_aux_buffer_disabled entry was set
during texture preparation and we already did the resolve at that time.
However, this also meant that the aux_usage we were passing to
brw_cache_flush_for_render and brw_render_cache_add_bo was wrong so our
automatic cache flushing around aux_usage changes wasn't happening.
This was causing GPU hangs in Oxenfree.

Bugzilla: https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=104711
Bugzilla: https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=104411
Bugzilla: https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=104383
Fixes: ea0d2e98ecb369ab84e78c84709c0930ea8c293a
Cc: mesa-stable@lists.freedesktop.org
Reviewed-by: Iago Toral Quiroga <itoral@igalia.com>
Reviewed-by: Kenneth Graunke <kenneth@whitecape.org>