mem: Optionally share the backing store

mem: Optionally share the backing store

This patch adds the ability for a host-OS process external to gem5
to access the backing store via POSIX shared memory.
The new param shared_backstore of the System object is the filename
of the shared memory (i.e., the first argument to shm_open()).

Change-Id: I98c948a32a15049a4515e6c02a14595fb5fe379f
Reviewed-on: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/30994
Reviewed-by: Jason Lowe-Power <power.jg@gmail.com>
Maintainer: Jason Lowe-Power <power.jg@gmail.com>
Tested-by: kokoro <noreply+kokoro@google.com>