ext: Updated Pybind11 to version 2.4.1.

ext: Updated Pybind11 to version 2.4.1.

This updates Pybind11 from version 2.2.1 to version 2.4.1. This fixes
warning/error received when "<experiment/optional>" is used when
compiling using c++14 with clang. It should be noted that
"ext/pybind11/include/pybind11/std.h" has been changed to include a fix
added by commit ba42457254cc362eddc099f22b60d469cc6369e0. This is
necessary to avoid build errors.

Built: Linux (gcc, c++11) and MacOS (clang, c++14).
Tested: Ran quick tests for X86, ARM, and RISC-V.
Deprecates: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/21019
Change-Id: Ie9783511cb6be50136076a55330e645f4f36d075
Reviewed-on: https://gem5-review.googlesource.com/c/public/gem5/+/21119
Reviewed-by: Jason Lowe-Power <jason@lowepower.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Sandberg <andreas.sandberg@arm.com>
Maintainer: Jason Lowe-Power <jason@lowepower.com>
Maintainer: Andreas Sandberg <andreas.sandberg@arm.com>
Tested-by: kokoro <noreply+kokoro@google.com>